The Fellas Guide to Planning Dates
As guys, I’m sure we’ve all heard women say “guys never want to plan dates” or “guys never make the effort on date night” or whatever the hell they like to say. I’m also 100% sure as guys, we’re tired of hearing that bullshit. Truthfully fellas, it is slightly our fault. We do tend to get complacent and not do the little things that really matter for our girls. However, I have the solution for you. This is the Fellas’ Guide to Planning dates. Whether it’s a first date or the thousand and first, this guide will help you set a good bar and gain appreciation from your lady because you took initiative.
Listen
Women love it when you listen. Yes, your girl will probably ramble on and on about nothing but when you listen, there’s always some insight on exactly what she wants. When you actually listen and retain the words she says you will know exactly the type of shit she’ll want to do on a night out, but it’s up to you to execute.
Think Outside the Fucking Box
Listen, any girl that has ever dated has been dinner and movied to death. Don’t get me wrong, dinner and a movie is a classic and still serves its purpose , but sometimes you gotta step the cookies up. You gotta think outside the box. You really gotta assess the girl you’re with and figure out what can I really do that’ll really make her wet in the panties.
Do your Googles
Honestly, a quick five to ten minute Google sesh can help you plan the best date your girl has ever been on. It’s true. There’s actually so much shit you can do that you wouldn’t even realize. So many ideas for dates that no one even thinks of. If you just put in the little effort to do a quick Google, it goes a long way.
Social Media is Your Best Friend
This should be a gimme. If you take a break from Ashkaash’s page for a quick moment you’ll know exactly what to do concerning a date night with your actual girl. My method is foolproof. Start with her Twitter likes. At first it’s gonna look like a bunch of random bullshit and man slander, BUT, if you read between the lines, all her interests are right there. If the Twitter likes aren’t doing what they’re supposed to, go to TikTok. There’s a bunch of cool dating shit on TikTok. I promise you it is not just for white girls dancing offbeat. If used properly, TikTok is a powerful tool. I’ll even link some that I’ve come accross for reference (mostly Philly area).
